Will the court appoint an attorney? What happens if the non custodial parent refuses to return the child to the parent with custody? What qualifies as a material change of circumstances in a Arizona child custody case? What if a noncustodial parent ignores or forgets about the summons and complaint? My ex spouse was physically abusive to me and the children. How can abuse be prevented during visits? I have joint custody with my ex spouse who just drops off our 5 year old child at his mom’s Can my ex spouse visit our children if I have a restraining order against him?